I thought you might like to see how Joey Houdini went out for Halloween. Susan sent me these. Joey is doing great. And that's his friend, Dante. I'd give them a treat for that. Joey is here now, and he's being as good as gold. No more amazing death defying feats.
Tuesday, November 10, 2009
Joey Houdini
I thought you might like to see how Joey Houdini went out for Halloween. Susan sent me these. Joey is doing great. And that's his friend, Dante. I'd give them a treat for that. Joey is here now, and he's being as good as gold. No more amazing death defying feats.
Monday, November 9, 2009
Bite Inhibition
Puppies teach puppies bite inhibition, but say your puppy was an only puppy. Or maybe the puppy was removed from the whelping pen too early, before he learned that it hurts when he bites. Or maybe you're a puppy with an adrenaline problem, and biting things makes you feel safer, or more comfortable; or if you get scared, you gnash the air and just bite at whatever is in the way.
Dogs that have any unacceptable bite history ought to be muzzle trained. I use the "puncture" rule. Any dog that has punctured any pet or person needs to be wearing a muzzle anywhere he could possibly make that mistake again. But they also need to be taught bite inhibition, and you don't do that with the muzzle on. So, I play with Ginger's teeth and tongue and gums, helping her become more aware of what her teeth are doing. And then, "tether the camel" by using the muzzle in EVERY situation where the dog might possibly attempt to "bite."
One way you can tell a dog didn't learn good bite inhibition, is they bite hard enough to do damage. But it's also sometimes visible before a dog makes his first bite in dogs who, when they get excited, grab at clothing or hands with teeth, or jump face up towards face, or attempt to nip the handler in the butt! Muzzle training means, teach the dog to love and trust and feel comfortable in the muzzle. If you see the dog attempting to remove the muzzle, it means either you went too fast, or you didn't reinforce it enough, or both. Scroll down in this blog for video clips of Ginger's first introduction to the muzzle. Only if you reinforce the muzzle generously, can it become a great tool that will allow you to safely socialize dogs without good bite inhibition.
I've had several people say , when they hear tales of canine aggressive behaviors, you've just got to teach that dog who's boss. But meeting aggression with aggression (even subtle threatening) is a bad idea with any dog. If you act aggressive towards your dog, it increases your dog's anxiety and fear, and canine fear and aggression go together. Ironically, although some people would say that Ginger is a "dominant" dog, my goal in training her is to build up her confidence. Until now, she hasn't been confident regarding what she is supposed to do. The environment that I create for Ginger, which includes a citronella collar when she's in her private playyard, puts certain behaviors off-limits so that I don't even need to say "no." My goal is to take on the role of Ginger's guru, not her boss. I want to help Ginger feel safe and trust in my leadership while she is here. Dominating her, bossing her around, will not do that trick.
Hand targeting is another game that helps dogs develop bite inhibition. You should make sure that your dogs never second guess your hands. They should know that those hands are safe places ALWAYS. You want your dog to trust you, trust your hands, trust your cues, and follow your leadership because they believe in you. That means you need to be very generous in meeting the dog's needs, but it doesn't mean letting your dog boss your around. I put Ginger where I want her, in the living room, on the porch, in one of the kennels, in her crate, leashed, tethered, and she has little rules about barking or sitting or not pulling on leash that she needs to follow to get the things that she wants. Outside in her playyard kennel, if she demand barks, she'll have to wear the collar that sprays perfume if she barks, so she just chews bones and plays with toys instead of barking. But unlike the video clips I've seen of Cesar Millan working with a dog aggressive dog, we never have any need to hiss, yank, choke, hang, terrify nor knock a dog nearly unconscious and exhausted to the floor. In contrast with Cesar Millan's technique, I guess my method must seem a bit boring!
I'm playing a lot with her teeth. I stick my fingers in her mouth every day, with food in my hands, and I am teaching her to bite onto tugs toys, and giving her an outlet and understanding for when it's okay to clamp down with her teeth, and when it isn't. She is seeing other dogs and eating a lot of dog bones. She is learning to relax and feel safe in a crowd. She's a good dog.
Thursday, November 5, 2009
Do you sleep with your dog?
My dogs sleep in my bed. Well, I should add, usually. Often. Sometimes I kick them out, and other times if I can't sleep I call the dogs and one or two will volunteer to snore in my ear. There is nothing that helps me sleep quite so soundly as the sound of a dog snoring in my ear. Personally, I don't think I'd bother with owning dogs if I wasn't ever allowed to sleep with them! It's one of life's little luxuries, a clean cuddly dog in the bed. When we travel, we all sleep together in the boat or tent or the hotel or the van, and it's a nice safe feeling. I conk out, and Charlie keeps one ear up all night long.
But I don't think every dog should be allowed in every bed. This is not a one size fits all situation. One rule I have is that if there is EVER even the slightest hint of a growl in the bed, that dog is banned forever from the bed. It's really not a place where you'd ever want to have a dog fight, and so if any dogs are competitive or if they might think it is THEIR bed, then forget it. Out. It's your bed and that goes unquestioned. If the dog starts thinking, "this is my bed" or "my chair" you can't let the dog in the bed. Another rule I have is only my personal dogs are allowed in my bed. Guests dogs are NEVER allowed to join our casual crowd. That's just not safe.
But in my house, my dogs know the bed is definitely the human's bed. They know it is an incredible privilege to be in the bed, and they sigh as though they have died and gone to heaven when then jump up and snuggle into my arms. It's kinda cold here in Maine, and sometimes they join me because they are chilly (Charlie has very short fur, and Tigerlily gets clipped), and usually when they are chilly, I am chilly. Sharing the bed for us is a win-win situation.
But if your dog has perhaps gotten into ticks today, or has fleas or sheds or just hasn't had a bath, then you don't want ticks in your bed, you need to have another sleeping alternative trained and in place! But I learn a lot from sleeping with my dogs. They seem to want to get in the bed more often when they are newly adopted, like little kids, and they slowly outgrow it. Charlie sleeps with us more than Tigerlily now (she's 4 and he's 2), and he whispers little things before he goes to sleep. He used to lay his cheek on my cheek, and sigh, and flubber his lips. I wouldn't have missed that for the world. And we're all fairly sensitive animals here, sleeping together helps us unwind. But when I really am trying to get high levels of performance for an agility or freestyle event, I have the dogs sleep in their crates. My dogs never argue, they've been trained to sleep quietly happily in their crates, but they wake up a bit more desperate to please, and they perform with more zip. And regularly, like if they are hogging the covers, or if my husband and I want a bit of private time, I make sure they stay in practice with sleeping elsewhere. Sharing the bed feels nice and right for us, but maybe that's because my dogs are smallish. Charlie is 50lbs, the others are less than half that. I never let my old St. Bernard in the bed. So, what do you think? Do YOU let your dog sleep with you in your bed?
Saturday, October 24, 2009
Boundaries, frustration and healing canine aggression
Contrast the "social talkers" with a dog like Ginger, who barks insanely for exercise, or to demand something of the humans, but she doesn't have anything to say to dogs in social situations. She thinks dogs are just vermin. If a dog gets too close, she just might suddenly flail and gnash her teeth. An inexperienced trainer could easily make a very big mistake with Ginger, because she is a cuddly sweet labrador retriever one moment, exactly the sort of dog people say, "she'd never bite," but she would. Bites happen when dogs build up adrenaline and they don't know what to do with it. Ginger needs careful management while she learns how to control her adrenaline.
There is a dog tied out across the street from the Peaks Island store who displays a perfect example of a "boundary aggression." Dogs on tie-outs often build up adrenaline and excitement when something tantalizes or provokes them, just out of reach. Bad things happen when the chain suddenly breaks. On Peaks Island several years ago, a dog on that same tie-out broke the chain, raced across the street and ripped a bichon out of her owners' arms and killed it. Dogs on tie-outs, especially in stimulating situations, frequently develop a dangerous adrenaline habit. You see that in leashed aggression or dogs who fence fight. They get tantalized and teased by things passing by, their adrenaline mounts like a narcotic high. No trainer is there to tell the dog to use the adrenaline to run the agility course, or to maintain a perfect heeling pattern, but the dog needs to release the adrenaline somehow. Dogs don't feel pain when they have adrenaline coursing through their veins. Adrenaline feels good, so when these dogs get frustrated, they just conjure up more adrenaline to kill the pain. And that is dangerous.
So, Ginger is getting lots of safe opportunities to release any frustrated energy. I take her for several off-leash walks in our extensive fenced training yards every day. And she is wearing a muzzle whenever she is anywhere but in her secure crate or kennel. It's slightly inconvenient to have to put it on and take it off, but it means, she can't make a big mistake. On a little island like this one, certain people are bound to talk or panic at the sight of a muzzled dog, but get used to it. Muzzle-trained dogs are perfectly safe. (The audio on my camera is broken! Rats! Sorry about that! This clip was Ginger's very first "walk" around loose dogs while on a muzzle. She no longer even notices that she has it on.)
Friday, October 23, 2009
Ginger and muzzle training
My goal is to change Ginger's life, and that starts by making it easier to take her for a walk. For a dog like Ginger, the only safe way to take her anywhere is to muzzle train her.
When I muzzle train a dog, I teach the dog to LOVE the muzzle. A guest was here yesterday, laughing at how much Ginger already loves the muzzle. I hold out the muzzle, she stuffs her nose inside and keeps it there. And just now I muzzled her and took her for a walk around the grounds. At this point, I want her to learn that every-time we go for a walk, she wears a muzzle. Muzzle equals walk. This will help me ensure that she LOVES seeing the muzzle.
Wearing a muzzle is sort of like wearing eyeglasses or a hearing aid. It takes a little bit of time to get used to it, but then you don't even notice it. Dogs wearing wire basket muzzles can eat, drink play and do anything that other dogs can do, except bite. In a world where off-leash or out-of-control dogs often approach without an invitation, the muzzle means Ginger won't be able to bite strangers. Instead, the new concern will be to make sure that no strange dog gets a chance to bite Ginger. This video clip was taken the very first time I showed Ginger the muzzle, five days ago. My camera battery died, but I will post new clips as soon as I can.
Monday, October 19, 2009
The Truth about Dominance
There are lots of articles now on the web and in print that explain why "dominance theory" (or, that theory that there is a hierarchy in wolf community in which the "top dog" rules the roost) is wrong from an ethological perspective, as wolves are more into cooperation than competition. So, you can read about that elsewhere. I have never used "dominance" theory in training, even when I re-train dogs who are aggressive, so I don't know much about dominance. All I can share is why cooperation (operant conditioning and classical conditioning) works better for me.
If you look at the video, what makes it nice is that Tigerlily is having fun. She's performing because she WANTS to. What you can't see is all the work that was required to get her to this point. Tigerlily was a very shy nervous puppy. As many old-fashioned hunting dogs are, she was extremely reactive (fearful, barking, lunging, snapping) with other dogs, even hats, umbrellas, shiny things, masks freaked her out, and she'd shut down, and want to hide. Other times, her prey-chase drive made us both crazy, and she'd point, quiver and scream in frustration at the end of her leash. But look at her confidence and balanced energy now! No leash, no collar, and there were a half dozen dogs right out of range of this camera, llamas chewing cud right around the corner and a lady holding a ferret had just walked by. This was the "All Pet" expo at All Dog's Gym in Manchester NH, and there were all kinds of small pets in cages, kids, dogs, people, and Tigerlily was cheerfully, patiently ignoring them all.
Why? Because she trusts me. She's my partner. Trust doesn't happen overnight, and trust never happens when domination is involved. Trust grows organically between partners, over time and life experience, bit by bit. I think this is the first time that she really "got" what all our preparation is about. She put together our pet therapy work (we've volunteered at Spring Harbor Hospital now for 3 years) and the freestyle practice and she had an "aha!" moment. Now four plus years old, she was regal with the other dogs, performed like a pro, schmoozed and kissed children afterward. When I brought her home she kept staring at me, it was *really* weird, sitting directly across from me on the ottoman, very alert, silently staring at me with love in her eyes. Then she'd climb into my lap and lick my face. It was as though she was telling me, "I loved it. Now I know what you've been trying to teach me all this time, okay, yes, I like the job. I agree. I think we should take it."
Tigerlily helps me and I help Tigerlily. It's a two-way relationship, but let's face it, she knows more than I do about lots of stuff. Plus, she is a much better dancer than I am! I love the things she teaches me. She teaches me to have patience, to give learning all the time it needs, to surrender, to love, to trust. If I were to try to dominate her, she'd never be able to teach me anything.
Friday, October 16, 2009
Dog Owners Survey
Right now we've got over 400 responses. If you're curious about the responses, please post a link to the survey on your homepage (one-shot blog posts or social media posts don't count). All the responses, the entire collected data, will be shared with those who recognize the value of the surveyed responses enough to commit to collecting reponses via their homepage.
But if you're more interested in the general results, and not the raw data, if you are supportive at the level of re-tweeting or facebooking or blogging, thank you so much! Once we have shared the data with other principle collectors, all the collectors will be posting their own analyses! If you'd like to help analyze the raw data, then do post a link to the survey on your homepage, and we'll be happy to share the responses, once we hit 1000 responses. This gives us a chance to have a large enough sample to glean meaningful results.
Here's the weak point of the survey in my mind, though I anticipated this issue from the start: Only a very small portion of reponses describe dogs where the respondant has considered (or managed) ending the "dog owner" relationship. This result was anticipated, as people naturally are considering dogs that they've kept, and forgetting or "not counting" the dog they had to give away, who didn't wind up truly joining the family.
So instead of including all dogs, this survey is painting a picture of the dogs who, for better and sometimes for worse, aren't the worst case scenario. These are the dogs who aren't homeless, they aren't in shelters, they aren't euthanized. Survey respondents are describing "the keepers," and challenges that are part of keeping dogs.
Tuesday, October 13, 2009
Getting to know Ginger
I'm developing a training plan with Ginger, and it includes plenty of de-stressing activities. Daily I let her explore off-leash in a fenced in quarter acre woodland, and then I take her on a leashed walk around the rest of the grounds. Ginger decides which way we go, and I follow her around where-ever she wants, as long as she doesn't pull. When she's got the leash taught, I freeze, but she is learning how she can lead me around. This isn't just a neat-o way of teaching a dog to walk on a loose leash, I also learn about Ginger by seeing where it is that she wants to go. It also reinforces Ginger for being near me, a nice result that I don't get if I just let her run around off-leash while I was indoors for example.
She wants to be with her family, and she began by leading me around in an effort to find them. She stared into the cabin where her guardians had stayed, and so I opened the door to show her. Nope. They weren't there. She walked me down to the driveway and stared. What the heck happened to their car? You could see this information dawning clear as a bell in Ginger's head. Oh my God. Their van is gone.
Ginger's had some surprises in the past few months, as her family recovers from a house fire and Ginger has to cope with weird new living arrangements which include, ugh, other DOGS! But she has an unusual sort of intelligence, and she is coping intelligently. Today, she again wanted to search the cabin. Yesterday, she wasn't making eye contact with me, but in front of the cabin, she suddenly looked up and right into my eyes, as though she was saying, "You know where they are, I know you do." And then she walked me down to the driveway again.
I'd taken a drive with Joey Houdini earlier, and at the finish, driven the van into the training yard so I can vaccuum it out (hahaha, not because he's shedding, that all falls out in easy-cleaning clumps fortunately, but because it's time ), and Ginger looked at the van as though she was thinking, "Could that be my family's van? What happened to it?" And she brought me to search the van. It's white, like her family's van. She sniffed and sniffed and sniffed, and led me all around the van. We slowly circled it four time, Ginger inspecting intently, sniffing under each wheel rim, at every door frame, four times! I finally had to open the door. She jumped in, searched it, then got into the back seat and sat down, staring straight ahead, her chin resolute. She was saying, in very clear dog language, "Get in and drive me to them." I had to laugh.
The other first thing we're working on (besides loose leash walking, and stress reduction) is getting her to respond to her name. "Name" is really the first thing I teach that will eventually have a verbal cue. As always, we start by getting the behavior and later we'll add the cue. Without going into the exercise, I'm basically clicking and treating her for making eye contact. Yesterday, she couldn't come anywhere near eye contact, so I just clicked and treated glances in my general direction (at my feet was what she was doing mostly). Today, she has been making direct glances into my eyes, and she also started playing with a ball, retrieving it right into my hand, like the retriever she is.
So, that's the game plan for this week: teach her name, loose leash walking, and get her playing. Next week, we will start conditioning her to LOVE a muzzle, like a teenager loves a nose-ring. Muzzle, yee-haw! Fun! Freedom! I also notice that she wants to mouth me a lot, so I'll be working with that a lot, playing with her lips and tongue and teeth and getting her used to having my hands in her mouth without biting me. In other camper news, Joey doesn't mind hanging out in the kennel. He doesn't bark, he doesn't try to escape, he's just happy everywhere (but he especially loves the van! All the dogs love their van. It's their idea of a castle.
Monday, October 12, 2009
Ginger, Houdini and the gang
Ginger and Joey Houdini both arrived over the weekend. This is Ginger's first visit, but she will be here for a long time. Houdini spent six weeks here this summer.
Joey Houdini, or Joseph as we often call him now, and we all buff our nails over this, is doing great. He's just perfect. Loving, soft, kind, gentle, and he's been coming when called, making no effort to escape, just a few gleeful runs and no barking, happy where-ever we put him, even in the crate. No kidding. Susan isn't going to believe this. But he just goes in the crate, eats his meal, and Joey smiles a lot. He is such a beautiful dog. (ummm. He sheds though! )
Ginger is back at the sort of stage Joey (who had been in and out of rescues for years) was in when we met him. Her family had a house fire three months ago, and insurance put them into an apartment that doesn't accept dogs. Ginger was basically living in the yard by herself. At nine years old, she had been pretty much been a yard dog, and so this adventure in a car to Peaks Island Maine is more adventure than she has ever known. We are almost more people and dogs altogether than she has ever seen.
Ginger eyed us warily when we all met, but warmed up to deliver the ocassional lick. If you take her by the collar, sometimes she'll stop and drop her body to the ground. But she seemed to be tolerating handling pretty well, but her owner told us she was bad with other dogs. So I tethered her in the kitchen. She wasn't reacting to the dogs she could see through the door, and I thought I'd let Charlie enter the room. The idea being, as a former street dog, Charlie is super dog smart, can read her body language, and he won't go near her if she doesn't appear safe.
Dumb move. Charlie walked right past her completely nonchalant, I should have warned him, but Ginger seemed fine for maybe 90 seconds, and right about the time I was thinking, "maybe you're getting a bit too close to her," Ginger lunged on top of Charlie. I took Ginger's collar, and her head whipped around and she redirected a bite onto my wrist. Ouch. That's my first dog bite. I guess there's a first for everything.
But Charlie was just fine fortunately, so that says something. Ginger could have hurt him if she'd really wanted to, and my bite isn't bad, just a tooth mark and a scratch that isn't deep. So, okay, now we know. Ginger really needs some help.
Until we can get her muzzle trained, we will tether her and surround her with 2 x-pens out of traffic in the living room, and the other dogs are kept well out of her way. She will learn at first to tolerate the dogs from a distance, so that by the time the wire basket muzzle arrives, she'll maybe be ready for closer socialization.
But all this new social life can overwhelm a dog. On arrival, Ginger was panting, very high energy, and not interested in food. It's three days today, and now she's been eating and gnawing bones. I've been talking her for off-leash walks, just me and her, in the fenced in woodland, and that is like medicine for her. She is generally relaxing quietly on the porch and on her tether, though I haven't been able to get her to stay in the kennel without barking, and she barked last night in the crate till I put on some music. I just keep moving the dogs from one area to another. I let her explore the fenced woodland while I moved brush this morming, then I let her take me for this leashed walk, while starting to show her how a leash walks, and that I only walk when the leash is loose. As soon as she loosens the leash, I start moving my feet. The instant she tugs it tight, I freeze. She's barking now. Beginnings are often a bit challenging. Joey is quite a comfort and reassurance to us all. We shall overcome...
Thursday, October 8, 2009
Working with 3 Dogs at Once
My basic training plan here was to reinforce the off-duty dogs for not interrupting whatever I was doing with the active dog. This has been difficult for them, so I have already been working on this by reinforcing the inactive dog for putting up with me asking for very little movement from the "active" . Here, Charlie especially was showing excellent progress, letting Tigerlily move quite a lot without trying to interrupt her (but he didn't want her running around the cones, and she knew this). This was recorded yesterday, and today I did a similar practice and they seemed to do even better. Tigerlily felt far more confident to run around the cones, enthusiastically, while the other two dogs were laying in the center.
Wednesday, October 7, 2009
Video tape of a belly shaping session
You can see he starts out by laying "down," and then he puts his "head down" and then he lays "flat" on his side. These are all behaviors I've shaped over the past year and put on cue, but I'm not cueing them here, I am just letting him offer them, and I'm marking them for reinforcement (with a tongue click), then next time he offers it, I withhold the click, so he pushed the behavior further, trying to get me to click. That's how I shape a behavior, but you'll probably get more out of watching the video than out of reading this, as I'm in a hurry and not in a writing mood.
He's so cute and I was having too much fun, so I went on too long in this session. I preer my shaping sessions to be under three minutes. A little bit of progress each day is all you need. Immediately afterwards I gave him a rub down, because that was like doing the twist, he was feeling some burn in his side muscles!! Another thing I saw when I watched this clip was that I probably should put something soft on the floor. He's more likely to lift his back legs enough to roll onto his back if the surface is softer. Tomorrow I'll do this shaping exercise with him on the bed or on the couch, to make it easier for him. I love to video tape training, as I can improve my method a great deal by watching afterwards, when you notice things that you might miss at the time. Let me know if it's helpful or interesting or if you have any questions. I'm not luring him, because I want him to learn to follow the "click" not the food.
Monday, October 5, 2009
Dog Owner's Survey
I've put up a Dog Owner's survey, and I hope you will take it. It's just twelve multiple choice questions, with room to comment on every question, and I'm getting a lot of fascinating information back already. Please fill out the survey and share the link with your friends. I ask people to fill it out for every dog you've ever owned, but at least, don't forget the dog you had to give away opr euthanize. I want to know about the times dog-owner bonds fail as well as the times they succeed.
Take a look at the survey. http://www.surveymonkey.com/s.aspx?sm=5T254FK1D13exD1NEEPlJg_3d_3d Are you curious about the results? Like, wanna know how people answered the question with Cesar Millan in it? Post a link to the survey on your website, then send me your website link, and once I have over a thousand results, I'll start sharing them with you! We can get a lot of important information out of this survey if we work together, send the link around, and get lots and lots of responses.
Behavior Science
Dog training is a lot like religion. We get our various gurus, and all these different churches trying to gather followers , but just because someone has a new word for gravity doesn't mean that gravity doesn't really make apples fall from the tree. There are still people who believe the earth is flat, and they would be happy to mis-educate you. Similarly, there are still people who misunderstand behavior, and they're eager to confuse you as they cling to misunderstandings in the hope of increasing the market for their own ideas.
Thursday, September 17, 2009
Bizarre behavior
Hello Dear,
How are you today? Moneta Bianco, i am 42 yrs old. I use to work in England as a pet sitter 7 yrs ago before i relocated with my family to Milano, Italy where i now work as a caregiver, I have lots of happy clients here in italy.
I have a client Miss Eliska Kovarova a model here in italy. She will be coming to the U.S in 3 weeks time for a photo shoot job and will be residing in Maine temporarily until the neccesary arrangement for her job has been made before she leaves, She has one 11months old teacup Maltese Puppy and would be needing a Dog trainner to train the Puppy while she is out on her photo shoot.
I have been looking for a dog trainner for over two weeks now, till i met an old friend Ms. jennifer moore, She use to live in America before she relocated with her family to Milano where she works now. I met her at Cosmetic Surgery and Beauty Conference that was held over the weekend in Florence I spoke with her about my client and was referred to you. She gave me your referral, So i decided to contact you to know if you will be able to train her Puppy.
Miss Eliska asked me to come with her to the US but i told her i would not be able to go with her to the US as i have a course i will be going for in a week time and i do not know much about trainning a dog. So i promised to help her get a good dog trainner in your Area. Pls tell me a little more about your self, how long have you been a dog trainner? and would you be able to train her Puppy from the 12th of next month to the 20th of November, 1hr individual training session twice a week for for 5 weeks?
Pls i need you to get back to me with the amount you charge per her and also let me know if she can pay you via US money orders?
Do send your reply to my personal email address ( monetcare@yahoo.it ) for a quick response as i do not check this email often.
Thank you very much and do have a nice day.
Moneta Bianco
21 Via Merkato ,
1,20121
Milano Italy
************
So, I have to wonder. WHAT is someone fishing for here? This email is an example of bizarre behavior, but what it means, I don't know!
Monday, August 31, 2009
Freestyle Bar-B-Que
Sunday, August 23, 2009
Hurricane Bill
Saturday, August 22, 2009
Breeding & behavior
Wednesday, August 19, 2009
Conditioning a head halter, loose leash walking
Friday, August 14, 2009
Prey/chase drive
Sunday, August 2, 2009
Thursday, July 30, 2009
Joey during bad weather
Saturday, July 25, 2009
Playing and Learning
Tuesday, July 21, 2009
Joey's favorite "toy"
Monday, July 20, 2009
Joey gets crate trained
Wednesday, July 15, 2009
Joey makes a choice
Cesar Millan: Why isn't this reported?
Sunday, July 12, 2009
Cesar Millan's mastery of illusion
Tuesday, June 30, 2009
Addiction, Freedom, and Letting Go
Sunday, June 28, 2009
When Joey went
Saturday, June 27, 2009
Joey the escape artist
Sunday, June 21, 2009
Joey Houdini
Peaks Fest was a blast. Here the dogs appear to consider what condiments they might like on their Whole hotdogs. And pictures of Joey, who would MUCH rather go under a fence than through a gate.
Whole Dog Campers after a very big rain
Tuesday, June 16, 2009
I'm recovering
Another Joey clip
Joey surrenders?
Monday, June 15, 2009
Escape artist
Monday, June 8, 2009
USDAA tournament
Sunday, May 31, 2009
Do you understand your dog's body language?
Thursday, May 28, 2009
Ruff Love
Sunday, May 24, 2009
Training clips
Friday, May 22, 2009
Susan Garrett's method
Thursday, May 21, 2009
Sophia Yin: Experts Say Dominance-Based Dog Training Techniques Made Popular by Television Shows Can Contribute to Dog Bites
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Sunday, May 17, 2009
Permissiveness
Saturday, May 16, 2009
Ruff Love
Tuesday, April 28, 2009
Distractions
Friday, April 3, 2009
Tuesday, March 24, 2009
Jost Van Dyke demo
Jost Van Dyke has about 40 kids in the school, so it reminded me a lot of the Peaks Island school. I began with a little demo to music,(which I can't seem to upload from the wi-fi, so I'll post pictures instead) improvised as we were in the shady area which was maybe 10 by 14 foot, and the kids were the most enthusiastic audience! I love kids! Every single child said they had a dog, and a few said they had more than one dog. And it was also obvious (from all the screaming!) that many of them were fearful of dogs, so after the freestyle demo, in addition to talking about training, and how to teach the dog the dog's name, we talked and I answered questions about dog safety, preventing dog bites, and keeping dogs healthy and fit. The kids had smart questions and were interested to know that Tigerlily is spayed. Not having litters of puppies is part of what has kept Tigerlily so healthy and fit!
I encouraged the kids to teach their dogs to trust them, by understanding what dogs need to be healthy, mentally as well as physically. After this demo, we couldn't go anywhere on the island without a handful of kids who recognized us, followed and shouted friendly hellos to Tigerlily. We made lots of young friends. Jost Van Dyke is a wonderful community. We were treated as people, not as tourists, which was notable and wonderful.
Thursday, March 19, 2009
Virin Islands
Monday, March 16, 2009
Jost Van Dyke
Jost Van Dyke is one of the smaller of the British Virgin Islands, but it is the biggest in my heart for it’s loving community. The first person we met was Gregory, who gave us a friendly smile and offered to “hold your dog,” while we were entering customs for check through. I told him no, thanks much, I am the only person who holds Tigerlily’s leash. One minute later we were refused admittance to the customs until we’d tied up our dog, so I had to return sheepishly to Gregory and thank him while taking him up on his offer.
And Gregory turned out to be the son of Roxy, who owned the music/tee-shirt selling establishment, who was the best friend of Errol. Errol is a native of Monserrat who has lived on Jost Van Dyke since the volcano exploded there, and he was the longtime keyboardist for Foxy, while Foxy was the leader of the band. Foxy told me he no longer performs “on Doctor’s orders” but he had lots of good tune suggestions. Errol was a delight, open minded and everywhere he went he had people smiling, and introduced us to so many people, so Albert and I took to thinking of him as Jost Van Dyke’s version of Matthew Day.
The men we’ve met here have been very funny, smart, excellent storytellers,very entertaining to sit around and listen to their stories which often have a punchline. Foxy is like the king of this paradise, he’s got what we compared to “Jones’ Landing” on Peaks Island if you combined Jonesies with Plants, because he’s also got the mini-ferry. It old him I was surprised, and hadn’t realized that he not only operated this community music and party, bar-b-que and tee-shirt central but he was also a musician. Foxy might not play anymore, but he is the consummate entertainer. This white lady walks by and I asked Foxy, “Is she your wife?” and he said, “She’s my boss,” and I think I may have looked horrified for a moment until he laughed and said, “You don’t know what a boss is. She’s been my boss for 37 years!” He says he doesn’t do anything anymore, he doesn’t know who is playing music or what’s on the menu or what anything costs. He just sits and socializes. He was very friendly and nice to sing to.
We haven’t really gotten to know the women as much, they haven’t been out socializing or playing music, but I sat near several local women who socialized a bit after work, or maybe some were still working, admiring a newborn baby . We have had cooking conversations and informal recipe trades with the woman who sold us two coconut ice cream cones, plus six tomatoes and two eggplants from her garden). I enjoyed meeting the teacher, Jessica, at the school, and after the kids are finished with their mid-year exams, I plan to offer a little class on dog care and training.
We’ve had very limited internet access, and so can’t really keep up with the many adventures and the many wonderful friends we’ve made. I am presenting a canine education program at the island school next week, and will try to get pictures of that. The people here are wonderful, we don’t lock anything or worry about anything, it feels very safe and loving, much like home.Salinas
We met up with Sophi and Travis, first in a beautiful ecolodge in El Yucay National Rainforest, and then they came back to Salinas and spent the night in the boat. Tigerlily has been switching on as a service dog, almost acting a bit strange as she starts to adapt to quite a lot of new responsibility, and last night I noticed she was resting on Travis and Sophi’s pillow. Sophi had made up the berth so it was fit for a Queen, and Tigerlily evidently took a shine to the role, reclining there she looked so pretty, but I noticed wet pawprints in the fabric. I just thought, her paws were wet, so I kicked her off, then Sophie said, “it’s pee.” Tigerlily had just lain down and drained herself!
I have told others that when a dog pees in your bed, it means he’s a little bit insecure and he’s trying to mark his place and say, “This territory belongs to me,” and my theory continues that as the dog becomes more confident of his territory, and has a deeper sense of ownership of the space, he won’t need to mark it anymore. The theory certainly seems relevant here.
Sophi and Trav left yesterday, and outside of Tigerlily’s one big mistake, she has been showing me incredible self-control and intelligent thinking, alerting me to all manner of things, including a couple of teenage boys who were mysteriously swimming around the docks and looking into the boats. She insisted on getting off the boat and showing me the kids, and then she wasn’t comfortable coming back aboard until they swam away. She is my hearing dog, and she has been alerting me to all sorts of things, including the usual cell-phone and equipment sounds, which is very helpful. Communication is a two-way street, and I make more mistakes than she does, as she alerts me to things, and I mistakenly think “it’s nothing” and it takes me a few seconds sometimes to understand that she isn’t being disobedient, but she is telling me that someone is walking up behind me, or a car is coming through the gate, or there is a baby crawling at the gate (true!), or quite a variety of useful things. I have been shifting away from assuming that she is reacting to the feral and wildlife, because increasingly, she isn’t.
When you have a service dog like Tigerlily, you are giving the dog a bit of adult responsibility. I mean, I can’t use her services if I can’t trust her judgement about what is important and what is not important. So today, after Travis and Sophi left, Albert and I did some work on the boat (I smashed my shin) and then I took her for a little walk. But she would just stop in her tracks, refuse to move another step. Weird. And I really don’t like the way that lately I have found myself pulling on her collar, I will not have her forcing me to force her, so to speak, so I decided to just see where she wanted to go, let her alert me to whatever the hell things she was thinking were so important.
So I told her, “Okay. Let’s go,” and I let her lead me. She strolled across the inner sanctum, the parking lot in the mangroves where only boat owners can park, and then into the outer parking lot, searching the spot where we’d said goodbye to Sophi and Travis. She walked me out back, to where the trashcans are, alerted to a cat, I told her to leave it, just a kitty, and she was completely fine with that suggestion, just went immediately back to sniff and alerting me to the area where she’s last seen the kids. She froze again, peering across the inner sanctum, really refusing to walk forward. I said, “Tigerlily. Sophi went home. They ‘re gone, they went home, they aren’t here anymore. I’m sorry.” And she started walking again, but hesitated at the dock to look down toward the end, where the kids spent time this morning, gawking over the boats and the people on them as well.
Thursday, March 5, 2009
Termites, and ticks
Everything looked more impoverished than it did last year, but still beautiful. The politics, we’re told, are corrupt and we don’t know about that, but we have seen signs of misplaced priorities. It’s hard to believe, but there seems to be no real environmental controls here, no pump out boats at the marinas, no recycling or bottle return, no bans on out door burning.
Other dog owners at the marina had been warning us of pesticide resistance in ticks which carry a disease – ehrlichia – which is potentially deadly to canines. So far, Promerisw seems to be working fine on Tigerlily.
Last year, when we bought this beautiful old boat, we were seeing signs of termites. We were reassured that the boat had been “tented and gassed” and the only possible termite on our boat was a dead termite. But it Magus had (has)live termites.
We used a week doing things we hadn’t planned on doing. Fortunately, my suspicious nature had led me to ship a bottle of “bora care” (a boron salt pesticide and wood preservative) to Puerto Rico, just in case we might need it, and we spent a very grungy icky week , working from stern to aft, and getting to know our “new old” boat very intimately, lifting every board, yanking everything out of every hold, sweeping up termite dust , and antique flecks of human skin and dust and hair that accumulated there, and painting the underside of every board, searching for live termites. It was obvious they were there, but where? Albert said he thought termite culture was a lot like ant culture, and I was wondering what sort of music termites like, when we hit paydirt. That not quite the right word, but it’s the right consistency for the termite city we finally found in a stern cockpit locker, under the screwed-in plywood bottom . A pile of softwood scraps saved from long forgotten project was completely swarming with maggoty looking termites.
Apparently, the gas hadn’t reached into this corner of the boat. We felt like surgeons removing a tumor, and we feel as though we really got every last speck. The every hidden corner of the boat is coated with boron salts. Albert followed our surgery and treatment with some carpentry, and now we only need to get the sails on, check the engine and thru-hulls, fix a few electrical issues, and hopefully we’ll be underway by Tuesday night.
The people of Salinas have been extremely loving and helpful. Frank went to San Juan, and brought us back the parts we needed from West Marine. Fred is a semi-retired boat surveyor, loaning us an outboardmotor for the dinghy, and he’s helped us with all manner of boat issues (and his opinion on the termites? “I wouldn’t worry about them. All the boats here have ‘em. Termites never caused a fiberglass boat to sink!”).Julio later invited us to dinner with him and his wife, Joy. Mary, with her substantial, informal dog-rescue gave us a ride to Walmart, and we went to a birthday party (for Reggie, who is sexy and beautiful at 66, and who says her secret to good health are the many dogs she rescues). Internet access is extremely sketchy, and I am posting this in a hurry from a local bar!
Saturday, February 14, 2009
Matilda's toenails
Thursday, February 12, 2009
Going to Puerto Rico soon
Because we plan to sail on into the British Virgin Islands, I had to get blood drawn from Tigerlily, and have her rabies titre($180), another expense of many which are adding up. Timing was good, as she was due for her three year rabies vaccine this fall, and the BVI requires the last rabies to have been done in the past 12 months. Then after my vet filled out the long form, I brought that to the USDA veterinarian, because he had to stamp his approval on it (another $76), which he did with a VERY fancy stamp. Today Albert is faxing the form to the BVI to make sure all is okay, but we have had difficulty reaching anyone in the veterinary division by phone.
And, I found my debit card and checkbook, right where I had carefully FILED them, duh, and I am not letting my passport out of sight, because I lose things , especially when I am excited or nervous. I've been telling Tigerlily, "You have won a six week freestyle and sailing and swimming vacation in the Caribbean, all inclusive!" Tigerlily loves sailing, loves everything about being on the ocean, she is an incredible swimmer and retriever and she is excellent about alerting me to things I can't hear, like, boat alarms! The one good thing about my increasing hearing loss is Tigerlily, who gets to wear her vest and ride in my lap on the plane, which would be fine except we have a long lay-over in JFK, and then we get into Ponce at 5 am! So I am hoping she will pee on cue on her puppy pee pads, because otherwise she will be holding it for 11 hours.
I am packing one teenyweenie bag for me, and a big HUGE bag for Tigerlily! It is rather comical. Tigerlily has dog toys and all her food and treats and medicines (I got a dog stapler, just in case, in the first aid kit). She's got a lifejacket, and long line and training journal.Tigerlily is bringing more pairs of shoes than I am!! On some of the islands there are cactus with huge thorns, so you will laugh when you see pictures of her in her special shoes. And all I need for myself is two bathing suits and summer stuff which packs down very small.
Monday, February 9, 2009
Mini work- out
Photo Sharing - Video Sharing - Photo Printing
Photo Sharing - Video Sharing - Photo Printing
Photo Sharing - Video Sharing - Photo Printing
Sunday, February 8, 2009
Toenails
Wednesday, February 4, 2009
Shaping
Tuesday, February 3, 2009
Shaping
Shaping a belly up position is sort of an emotional thing. My dog (formerly feral) Charlie is just learning, and (Princess and the Pea) Tigerlily already knows how to do roll overs and belly ups, but I just thought I'd take away any cues, and go back to shape them both with reinforcing belly up in mind. Charlie wasn't in the mood for anything serious, so I didn't push it even though he is further along than it looks here. Charlie was distracting Tigerlily outside the door, so with her too, I called it quits the instant I got the behavior that I was looking for. I can always play this game again tomorrow, and get it on cue later. But these are good examples of how it looks with two different dogs when I am "shaping" a behavior. The behavior I am trying to get ultimately will be on their backs, with their feet in the air, but for now I'm happy with Charlie is he'll start to go flat on his side, and Tigerlily when she rolls all the way over.
Saturday, January 31, 2009
Resource Guarding

The little cockerspaniel is back, and wow, amazing how easy it has been to clean up the resource guarding. Today he snuggled up to Charlie, leaned the bone against him, and chewed, gnawed as peacefully as a cow chewing cud.
I'm so glad we nipped that in the bud. Resource guarding can really be a problem, but dogs generally respond very well to a sense of safety and abundance, as I described below, a couple of posts ago.
This is a picture of Charlie and Tigerlily, from last year, when we had just adopted Charlie, and we were showing him that he was safe, no one was going to take away his toys, there are plenty of toys, giving him more toys, flooding him with all the toys he needed, not taking toys away. Dogs really relax after they find out that no one is going to just steal their stuff. People tell me feral dogs often resource guard, but Charlie doesn't demonstrate any resource guarding at all. I see some nervousness in his face in this image, which was in the first month we had him, but he is completely relaxed and smart about sharing. It's not a high stakes game. By providing plenty for everyone, sharing stuff is more of a fun game, not a desperate game.
Thursday, January 29, 2009
Clicker Training
I don't know why I used that label. Yes, I was clicking, not luring, not choking, not forcing the dog into a sit. It sure sounded like clicker training to me! But several years after reading Karen Pryor's "Don't Shoot the Dog," it slowly became more significant that I wasn't doing things exactly as a "Karen Pryor Clicker Trainer"(TM) is taught.
Karen Pryor promotes the use of a handheld clicker, and I ditched the handhelds and starting clicking with my mouth about four years ago, partly so I could stop buying the damn things from KPCT. Also, the KPCT academy training, that "click ends the behavior" is something that many of my agility mentors have helped me see as not desirable, not always true, and certainly not not always necessary.
So, over all these years as I grow as a trainer, I find I'm falling away from the KPCT corporate idea of "clicker trainer." Rather than promote dog training as "proprietary" knowlege, which is bought and sold and employed as a whole cookie-stamped package, I am finding the better journey will look more like my other artistic ventures, where I can freely explore technique, make my own discoveries, while cultivating fluency and creativity with an operant language that is spoken among a diverse and multilingual community of trainers.
Sunday, January 25, 2009
Fifty

It's my birthday, I'm 50 years old today! Went through all these old photograph albums, and so much not in the albums, but found this photo of me at five years old, at my first birthday party. That first birthday party was a really big deal, I had to talk my mother into having it, even though my brother and sister had already had like two parties each, but then yeah, she let me invite my kindergarten, and some of the kids came. Mommy gave me a card, from Nana I think, and it opened into a crown that said 5. And I was wearing this orange fluffy dress, with one of those nylon puffy slip things. I saw that picture of me at five, today as I turned 50. The memory of me at five hit me so vividly, weirdly, and I felt it so clearly, how I was then, how it felt to wear that 5 on my head, how important and scary and wonderful.
Sunday, January 18, 2009
Resource Guarding
Needless to say, nobody likes resource guarding. It can be a bit dangerous, for example, if a dog is guarding a bone from another dog, and the handler intervenes, there is a chance the handler might get a redirected bite.
So, for some reason, a familiar guest arrived showing a bit more intense resource guarding this visit than last visit. I definitely don't like to see resource guarding escalate. Generally it is a sign of insecurity, where the dog feels he needs to defend his stuff, as otherwise, he fears someone might take it. It's not the worlds most horrible thing when a hissy fit is directed at another dog, but when they are a bit startling, it's time to address the issue.
So, what I've been doing is practicing "trade ya" to make sure this dog is happy about giving me his bone or whatever, and flooding the environment with delicious chewable things, and giving him lots of safe secure un-threatened opportunities to chew. So, out there today are two beef bones, four pig ears, zillions of toys, and I keep passing out dog biscuits and dental chews. This is the opposite of what you might hear about resource guarding, where you have to keep toys and treats picked up. In this sort of situation, where a young dog is just starting to resource guard and it is not an established aggressive behavior, but more of a game that is just a little too serious, I think it, it's best to FLOOD resources onto the floor, so the dog gets a sense of abundance, and gets used to having so many resources available, that the perceived need for guarding is reduced.
It's working. He is finding out that he can chew on a pig ear, and the other dogs aren't going to bother him, because they have their own pig ears. Pig ears are beginning to seem a little less over-the-top exciting. In fact, there are so many good things to "chews" from that he is laying here at my feet, maybe his mouth is exhausted from chewing, not at all worrying about the fact that Tigerlily is chewing on a beef bone a few feet away.
We need to teach dogs that sharing "their" stuff is fun, and painless, nothing to worry about. We can do that by reinforcing the dog's sense that giving up any object is a low cost (there's plenty of objects! I'll trade you this one for that one!), and highly reinforced ( I'll pay you for letting me have it) behavior.
Monday, January 5, 2009
Yard manners
Last night the kids left out a plate full of turkey, so I am using it as treats today. First I just call the dogs (Matilda suspects she is one) and they all come running because they know the drill. Yasi calls when she's handing out snacks. I don't call because they have to come inside necessarily, I call because I found this chunk of meat that they might like. Yippee! They come running as though they've got a phone call.
And when I bring the dogs inside, it's the same thing. They come inside to get the meat and then they go right back outside. I don't want the dogs to avoid recalling because they don't want to come inside. I want them to think they are just recalling for a snack, and then, right back outside to play! So they come flying! And when they have lots of outside time, they get so they don't mind the inside time after all.
So, to condition a quick recall with less barking, I wait till Matilda is quiet, and then I go outside and call her for turkey-time. If she is barking at the trees (or some other dog a mile away), I avoid calling her, but just go outside, interrupt her, and sort of shepherd her back inside if I can. Maybe give her some dog food if she cooperates, but nothing spectacular, and if she persists in barking she has to come inside. But I call turkey time when she's quiet. So, she is quiet more and more, because that increases the chance I'll come out and call her (self-discipline required on my part!). And so she comes running, "here's a yummy treat, now get lost kid." So now instead of hiding, barking in the furthest corner of the yard, worried that I might come out and ruin her happy moment (as she was doing two days ago), she is hanging around quietly for longer periods of time, and nearer the door, just in case I might call.
Sunday, January 4, 2009
Matilda



My camera is so annoying, I took all these videos of Echo and Matilda playing together, and then when I look at the camera it has one second of video. Rrr. My last easy share camera was great, but this one does not function well on rechargeable batteries. Oh well. Here are some photos I took yesterday. Matilda doesn't like the flash, so she doesn't like the camera, thus the expression on her face.
Tuesday, December 30, 2008
Matilda and Pirate
Matilda is fabulous with other dogs. Pirate has also improved his canine social skills. They take turns chasing, and let each other take a break. This is really nice dog play.
I love to watch dogs interact. Observations skills are an absolutely essential foundation skill of good trainers. Trainers need to observe a great deal of canine behavior in order to understand what we are seeing.
Monday, December 8, 2008
A belief in punishment...

Beliefs are often obstacles to new information. I just clipped the following out of an article I found on google news via Chicago Tribune, http://www.chicagotribune.com/news/nationworld/chi-obama-birth-certificate1dec08,0,7258812.storytoday .
“Nyhan co-wrote a study this year that said journalists' attempts to correct misinformation is unlikely to sway public perceptions because many people want to believe the misperception.
"People often have a strong bias for believing the evidence they want to believe and disbelieving what they don't believe," Nyhan said. "There is less of a sense that we all have a common set of facts we can agree on. There's a polarization, and we can't even agree on the basic factual assumptions to have a debate."
I see this every day in dog training. People WANT to believe in punishment. We want to believe in change that we can make occur anywhere other than inside ourselves.
Another news story today lends credence to what the Buddha has always said, and Thich Nhat Hanh has always said, that happiness is contagious. http://www.thecrimson.com/article.aspx?ref=525793

Well of course. Behaviors are contagious, happiness is a behavior. Beliefs are also contagious. Behaviors/beliefs don’t exist in a vacuum. Behaviors/beliefs exist in relationship, and our most important relationship as dog trainers, is our relationship with ourselves. We need to know what cues we are sending out, what punishment, what reinforcement. Our right hand needs to know what the left hand is doing. Whether we learn this in dog training or in our human relationships, it’s the same: change our own behavior, to change the behavior around us.

Many behaviors are always happening at once. My behavior, the dog’s behavior, the bird’s behavior, the behavior of the paper bag in the wind. We can’t train response to any of it unless we can first train our own response.
Believe you'll need to get rid of the food reinforcement pretty quickly, but intend to keep using punishment as long as you need it? Instead, try using reinforcement for as long as you need it. The more you practice, the more you build that history of reinforcement on the behaviors you like, and the more you will see results that reinforce your faith in reinforcement.
Monday, October 27, 2008
Sunday, October 19, 2008
Wednesday, October 8, 2008
Tuesday, September 16, 2008
The Nest

Sophi and Echo are gone off to college, and I am incredibly busy, organizing my body and mind and environment to adapt to this change in our lives. And it doesn't feel that my nest is empty, not at all. I still feel my children's presence here, I still feel like a mother hen, but my nest seems to be stretched across a much wider space. As children go off into the world, and really much earlier, our role as mother's concerns us with the condition of the whole world.
My blog topic this year has been "what do I want?" Lately I find myself completing the question as "What do I want to do?" I made a list recently: play guitar and sing, swim, play/train with my dogs, walks, write, share information regarding behavior and community health and lifestyle. Though for many many years, I used to say and believe that I hated money, over the years my understanding of the role of money in the world has really changed. At this point, I have some good ideas of ways to put money to good use in the world, and so I want to earn money. I want to put money to excellent use.

We're looking at property in Bath Maine and I am incredibly excited about it. I love Whole Dog Camp on Peaks Island, but I've felt somewhat constricted regarding what we can offer and do here on the island. If we are able to finance the purchase of what would become Whole Dog Farm, in Bath Maine, we would be situated in a beautiful maritime city, fog horn distance to Portland and Augusta, just about 3 hours North of Boston. The property we are looking at would be ideal for our sort of sustainable lifestyle, and it has a history of being lived in and loved for long periods of time. We could expand our organic gardens and have tremendous flower power! The pictures I have here are from my gardens now. We have a friend here on the island who we hope could serve as a resident manager for Whole Dog Camp, while we offer canine and behavior science programs in both locations.

I've always been a teeny bit superstitious, and never wanted to buy or live in a house where the previous occupants were divorcing or if it seemed like the energy was confused and under a lot of upheaval. Environment influences our behavior so much, perhaps it is often the home that causes the divorce?! Anyway, when I walked into this property, I immediately loved everything about it, but I didn't say that or even look around, because I was thinking I was really only there to look at the land. We've built our passive solar, energy efficient, low toxic home on Peaks Island, and I've assumed our next home would be an energy efficient straw bale home, off the grid, with a urine separating composting toilet. But this old house is sturdy, brick, and in the pretty hallway it seemed the wallpaper was original? From 1850? I actually kept my head lowered, didn't want to look around, because I loved the house. I loved the wallpaper! The windows looked out on the field, there were two chimneys. I could feel warm bodies, a Grandmother and Grandfather. It felt cozy, friendly, completely unpretentious, safe. It was a healthy, loved-in environment.

Now I've done more research. One family kept the home for 136 years, and Hazel Tardiff, who died a few years ago, lived 61 years in that home. Albert and I laugh for the way we seem to be stepping into the shoes of Grandmas and Grandpas who've gone before us (thinking also of our boat, Magus). So I'm putting together a business plan and we are shuffling around our deck of cards. My business on Peaks Island has been successful with 900 year round residents, and 3000 summer residents. Bath's population, which also swells in the summer, is 9000 (plus 6000 entering the city daily to work). And Bath is on the mainland. Though there are lots of dog daycares and dog businesses in Maine, there are none in Bath, and anyway no one in the state is doing what I am doing (focusing on the whole environment and taking a wholistic approach to applied behavior science) with Whole Dog Camp.
Also when I was there walking the land, a neighbor in the distance peered over her steers in a pen and seemed to notice me with the dogs and the realtor in the field. And of course it's too soon to know if this dream will come to fruition, but I felt this friendly welcoming energy. Funny how sometimes everything literally falls into a place. Or maybe that's just what I want.
Monday, August 25, 2008
Attila Szukalek and Fly
I was thrilled a few years ago to meet Attila Szukalek at the Clicker Expo in Newport, he actually handled Tigerlily for a few seconds there in a seminar. He is such a great teacher. He and Fly performed several demonstrations, and he joined in Kay Lawrence's freestyle seminar. You know how good trainers are really good observers of dogs? I got the impression that Attila didn't miss a speck of behavior going on anywhere! So he was very helpful as he went around the room and helped handlers get a feel for his fluid training style. The highpoint of the expo for me was enjoying his dinner table, hearing him telling stories, and answering burning training questions from around the table. I especially remember one comment he made, about how sometime in the past, he might get mad at Fly when she was making a mistake or something, and talk to her in an angry tone of voice. He regretted ever having yelled! I think that's a pretty humble thing to think about, so self-effacing and self-reflective, the very greatest dog trainer on earth, showing how important it is, as trainers, to pay attention to our own behavior! I was very impressed. Here's an article about Attila and his dog here,
http://www.clickertraining.com/node/884 and another that is very informative here: http://www.caninehorizons.com/Attila_seminar.html .
This is a second major blow to freestyle enthusiasts, as another pioneering dog, Carolyn Scott's dog, Rookie, died just about a month ago. I can't imagine how hard this must be, to lose a dog you've trained for so long. Life isn't for wimps, as they say. Atilla is such an extraordinary trainer, I'm sure he has trained himself to prepare as much as anyone can for these realities of life and death. Oh Attila, I'm sorry. Many people are thinking of you fondly and wishing you peaceful beautiful thoughts at this time of transition. May superior freestyle and Fly live on in all your many admirers!
Monday, August 18, 2008
Wedding
Dandylion was just barking so I ran to see what was up, and he's out in the training yard, looking extremely keenly at me, sitting on a mat.
Now Charlie's barking, hold on...
He seemed to be barking at what Dandylion was saying, which was, "train me! I insist! I'm not leaving this mat till you train me!"
Marriage is kinda like mat training. It's a reinforcement station. It's an area of life, let's say, where you can become trained go to collect various reinforcements, provided you meet certain criteria.
Anyway, Matthew and Liz have just begun their training process, Saturday, in a spectacular wedding, which included the perfect (very short yet very intense) torrential rain and thunder storm immediately following their windy, blustery vows.
I only have seconds to write, all these vases and bowls to empty and store, the house is a mess, the dogs want to be trained. But I had this one big realization over the course of this wedding week, which included several marvelous meals, many wonderful people, a midnight ocean swim, (cold water nudity), many heartfelt conversations with my husband.
And I realized, all the ways he is, all the ways I am, it's not really our fault. When he says or does or behaves in some way that seems "wrong" to me, it's just the way he is. We're different. It's not his fault that he doesn't see, or hear, or feel, the things I see or hear or feel. We're structured differently internally. Our brains have been trained differently. We have different things, in terms of chemicals, biology, bone structure, muscle mass, not just in terms of ideas and mental processes, going on inside our bodies.
Sometimes I have really been frustrated with the idea that Albert should "know" certain things, but I had a moment this weekend anyway, where it really dawned on me that there are certain things that he will never know (see, hear, feel, taste, smell, think, dream) the way that I know them, and that just has to be okay. Somehow we all have to put up with how alone, in that way, we inevitably are. I've noticed my genetic tendency to have an almost desperate-looking interest in communicating: I write it, sing it, dance it, grow it, publish in every available format, stand on my head if that's what it takes! Whereas Albert is naturally more content, he seems to have a different understanding his own aloneness. We've been married 24 years, and I still have so much to learn from him.
Tuesday, August 12, 2008
Rain

I want to go swimming and all the rain just makes the water so cloudy, plus it's cold and I feel wimpy. Wimpy and old and fat. Plus I am looking at the tail end of a well-employed summer season, and not sure what will happen through the fall. Will I continue to get these interesting winter board and train clients, and how in the world do people find me anyway? Should I go ahead and finish my several writing projects? Or maybe just book some gigs? Or is playing music in public a complete waste of time and energy? For that matter, is writing a waste of time? Or just keep on keeping on with the writing and music and dogs and flowers, the boats and swimming, hoping that it's okay to have these many loves, that somehow I can make room, time, money for them all?
Is it possible that we all live this way, just bungling along, laying one dumb foot in front of the other, and then suddenly we look up and think, how in the world did I get here? And, where is here?
Thursday, July 31, 2008
Charlie
Last night in agility class, after spending several hours in the car ( I came in on the 2:45 boat to do pet therapy with Tigerlily at Spring Harbor, and she was so amazing with the kids! She is so smart! A little boy with MR and also he bangs his head, was rocking repeatedly, and Tigerlily played kiss the baby with him to interrupt his behavior, she was so great. Very loving. And a four year old, not sure what his diagnosis was, but he kinda wanted to pull tail and stuff like that, Tigerlily seems to understand her job better and better. She played a retrieving game with him and she was so happy to do that! I just love her so much! I felt so proud of what a great job she did yesterday at the hospital! And I think she is starting to really understand what she is doing there), but anyway, agility class wasn't till 7:30 pm, I did errands till then, and both dogs at first just got out of the car and looked at me like, "You've got to be kidding." I asked for "down" and they were like, um, NO.
And trainers, let's not forget that our dogs aren't robots. They need to warm up and get in the mood, they need to stretch and breath and sniff around a little. They need to take a leak, and get a drink. So I laid down on the grass and played with my dogs, and I couldn't pay attention to the dogs AND the teacher (so I DO understand this phenomenon, never worry!), and that's the best thing to do anyway, always focus on the dog. The teacher will come around and put you on course later. If the dog doesn't want to do the exercise, just focus on getting the dog playing!
So, I went "back to kindergarten" with Charlie, started clicking and treating eye contact and response to name, and hand targeting and then he started offering some downs, finally. Mosquitos were getting bad, but Tigerlily also just needed time to warm up.
It's a mistake to compare our own dog with what any other dog is doing or thinking, just as it is a mistake to compare one child with another. Each being is where the being is at. We all have our own mood of the moment. You just have to work with what you've got, at that moment in time. It doesn't help to get frustrated, or to get angry. It doesn't help to tear hair and think, "but he should be able to do this! He KNOWS this trick! Look at how the other dogs all have it down!"
At the hospital, a doctor (or something. Not sure what he was. Maybe a social worker? ) seemed mightily grumpy, and I heard he'd had problems with the kids. I saw a couple of angry looking young boys too, but they were behaving just fine while the professional was still displaying angry face, as though angry face was helping to keep those kids in line. It disappointed me that the professional was showing that anger, rather than reinforcing what was apparently improved behavior. Anger clutters up behavior plans with punishment that isn't targeted on the ongoing behavior and it doesn't belong in the trainer's demeanor. The trainer has to be really ready to cheer up and start reinforcing desired behaviors the very instant they start happening, rather than hang onto a disappointed/punishing attitude after good behavior has started happening.
Wednesday, July 30, 2008
Charlie regresses
But lately, now that's he's healthy and happy and safe and about six months into pet doghood, he seems to be remembering the good ole feral days with nostalgia. First, when my sister Kathy was here, Charlie kept jumping up on everyone and everything. I had compassion for that, Charlie is accustomed to using his arms as well as his back legs, imagine how you'd feel if someone told you you couldn't lift your hands above you head? And he was raised in an environment where any food was fair game and trash cans provided his staple diet. But still I started delivering a friendly consequence -- crate or tether or send outside -- when he jumped up without an invite.
So this week he's not jumping up as much, but he just isn't wanting to play my games by my rules. When he was feral, he made his own rules. I throw a ball and he runs to the gate, "let's go for a walk!" I try to make getting the ball the criteria for going for the walk, but then on the walk he isn't recalling as well as he was last week. I call and if he doesn't come flying, I call "too bad" and head back to the house. The idea being that if he wants my companionship, he needs to work at it to get me to stick around.
And these things progress one step forward, one step back. He just has this huge history of being able to reinforce himself, so if I head back to the house, he's not particularly devastated, he just goes to roll in some poop somewhere and then runs back to the house to meet me. Or in the training yard, if he doesn't want to perform a behavior, he might just take off and grab a toy or a bone, or else he might just stand there. My liverwurst apparently doesn't taste quite as good as the ability to reinforce himself.
So, I have to reel him in. By now, he is quite accustomed to his harness (though he even managed to wriggle out of that yesterday) and so I think he will benefit from the umbilical cord game, where I just leash him to me and take away all his ability to go score reinforcements without me for a while. I don't want to make this aversive at all, I will have to reinforce him a great deal for putting up with it, and I'll have to build the duration. But it is important that he learn that the best way to get reinforcements is to play games with the handler. The only way to do this is to make it a lot more difficult for him to collect any big kinda "fun" without me.
Monday, July 28, 2008
Swimming against the current
On the way back, we were swimming against the current, the tide had come up, and we were riding pretty exciting waves. It was a hard slog to get back to where we started, a boat sorta scared us, we'd lose each other in the waves, but all those difficulties made the swim much more of an adventure. I love waves. I love the exhausted way I feel now, every muscle in my body is warm and I've been thoroughly soaked in salt water. Something happened to the back of my hand out there, maybe it got stung? And now it's swelling up. I guess in these ways, our sufferings make life more interesting. As Debbie told me once, if we didn't have some struggles, life would be boring.
Friday, July 25, 2008
Feeling in love

I listened, feeling so in love, so full of gratitude, so humbled by everything in my life, in-love with my current ability to hear, for however long it lasts.
I’ve been talking with Liz about love, and the feeling of being-in-love, because she’s so in love, getting married! She and Matthew are writing their vows, and I’m growing the flowers for their wedding. At the same time, Albert and I are entering as new phase, the so-called “empty nest” phase, of our marriage. We sometimes freak ourselves and each other out, displaying newly middle-age feelings, and it’s not always that goggle-eyed romance thing, sometimes we have dull cross-eyed feelings. And so I was telling Liz that she shouldn’t get married or not married because of “feelings.”
You have to expect, if you stay together for any real length of time, to go through a whole bunch of different feelings. That’s what humans do.
But in our culture, we’re taught that the feeling of “being in love” is an indicator of profound truth, a gauge like a thermometer by which we can measure the strength or truthfulness of our relationships. But love is just another feeling. If we are truthful we see that love isn’t something we feel only in the presence of a particular person, but it’s a lovely feeling, a joyful feeling that is always available, rising to the tip of our consciousness when we feel moved with appreciation. Jesus, they say, loved us all. When you feel “in love,” you are a feeling gratitude that benefits the whole world. We should cultivate and creatively apply that feeling to our daily lives, whether or not we have a romantic partner. There are so many sorts of love! Each love is tremendously important, beautiful, valuable.
Everyone, everyplace, is worthy of love if our own heart can open and accept, truly accept, the imperfect as perfect. In this way, our own beautiful heart makes love.
Visiting Dad in the nursing home, he gave me this smile (from the depths of his own suffering and loss), and something about it struck me as so beautiful. I allowed that feeling to bloom in my heart. True, at times in my younger years I was so mad at Dad, times I raged and didn’t understand him – but when my heart overflowed with gratitude and forgiveness for every single moment of both of our lives, that was a good thing. Nothing was anybody’s fault, everything made sense, it all fit together. Our forgiveness and gratitude for each other was a work of art for both of us.
Gratitude is a feeling that recognizes temporality. Any life lasts just a short while. Maybe we get married because of the hurried pace of life, but maybe it’s because of the way life goes on.
I have a hearing problem, but the world is still musical. Similarly, love is always there, even if we can’t always sense it. Each partner feels love independently, with their own imperfect senses. In a long marriage, we don’t get this deal where we can just go around love-deaf as a bat, dependent on the other’s ability to sense love, and make life bearable. We have to take care of our own ability to feel love. We have to believe it is there and listen for it. Even in a marriage, we have to practice gratitude, deep listening to everything, in the quiet aloneness of our own private heart.
Thursday, July 24, 2008
Georgia OKeefe
I think one of the sad things that happen to people as we age is when we lose our idealism, or passion for life. When we've been bumped a few too many times by accidents and losses, we become afraid of the future, and lose our joy, or maybe we just feel superstitously inhibited in expressing joy. Maybe we think that our sadness can better twist the arm of fate. Maybe with cynical sadness, we feel in better control of our fate. Maybe a passionless demeanor seems more realistic. Maybe hopelessness seems less likely to disappoint or surprise us.
But hopelessness isn't beautiful. Beauty is a fire in the eyes. Beauty is brave and slightly foolhardy, and doesn't really worry as much as it could. Beauty jumps up and down, and laughs loudly!
Even when something awful happens, it's never wrong to be happy, to feel grateful. I'm thinking about Allan St. James, of course, and how beautiful he is. Thinking about him and how he faces his challenges can inspire us when we think about how we want to cultivate beauty in our own lives. Georgia Okeefe was that way too. Her beauty as she aged was the result of her courage, her passions, her decision to live a life of joy, her conviction and determination that to be happy and to uphold her commitment to her own truth and never allow her commitments to be compromised by natural challenges and opposing forces.
When Dad was in all those nursing homes, I saw people who had been curled into a fetal position for years, and it frightened me. What happened to Allan frightened me. I realized, any of us could end up that way, it can happen in the blink of an eye, and the idea of losing what we have really frightened me. But fear itself is a loss. It makes us shrink. Daughters, don't be afraid of your choices. Give yourself entirely to your commitments, don't give yourself half-way. Do what you believe in doing. Don't be afraid.
Georgia Okeefe accepted her fate, she gave herself entirely to what she believed, and she was still blossoming into her 80's and 90's. She wasn't shocked or downtrodden by her losses. Her losses were nothing, they were just things she was willing to give away. Generousity means an ability to accept loss peacefully, without fear. All her life, Okeefe was beautiful and in love -- open, receptive, appreciative, giving, absorbing --beauty was her life, and love was her world.
Wednesday, July 23, 2008
What I want
Feel in love
write some books
achieve in behavior science
achieve physical health and strength
be beautiful
travel the world
see some jungles
learn to scuba
have close friends
be a fun Gramma/Aunt
help children
And then I just circled the first five, figuring I didn't really know what they meant anyway, and so I could let their meaning be flexible. Then my neighbor, Johanna, told me her Bernese Mountain dog just had twelve puppies, and I thought, I would like to choose two of them, expose them to early neurological stimulation, and train and place them as service dogs.
I've been surveying service dog organizations, creating a chart that at a glance would let a perspective client have a sense of training organizations various styles and approaches, and working on some articles that would be helpful to people looking for a service dog, and it makes me realize that there are some really FANTASTIC organizations out there doing some fantastic things, but there is definitely a need for more.
Friday, July 18, 2008
Spunky Kate Cinnamon Casserole 1989-2008
Spunky was healthy till last February, but since then it's been a steady decline. I was grateful that I didn't need to dig a hole. All I do was sing to her, and then tuck her back into the earth. Spunky was a very good cat for a very long time.
Monday, July 14, 2008
Tigerlily surprises us
We even stopped on the side of one of the island's busier roads, and visited with Nancy and Mike and their labradoodle, and although Tigerlily did react for one second when the doodle came over to give her a hug, Tigerlily's off-leash behavior on the whole was pretty impressive. It was like there was a leash. We were so proud. On the beach, I played freestyle/ball games with her, wowing beach goers as they watched her twist, twirl, pop, jump over my arms, weave figure eights around me, do long back away, and turn back to back through my legs, and galloping send out and arounds, all this rewarded with the opportunity to splash into the water, swim out to retrieve a tennis ball. So mcuh fun!
So, to make this long story shorter, later I decided to take both her and Charlie through the woods, and off-leash low criteria romp where Tigerlily wouldn't have to remain at heel, but she could zip and zoom and enjoy time to be a dog. And we were having such a great time, I was just getting ready to remove Charlie's harness (didn't want it getting hooked on a branch) when Albert said, "Someone's coming." I took Charlie's harness and turned to see two dirt bicyclists appear, young girls. And glanced back at Tigerlily, and she was poised to do something out of control. "Hand!" I said, thinking that might work, but she exploded off, barking "stop! stop!" at the cyclists, but they just kept right on coming into our space. "Please stop!" I said to the cyclists, hoping to God they'd believe me because in spite of the way Tigerlily's hysteria seemed to be escalating -- she was nipping at a cyclists ankle -- they were determinedly still pedaling right towards us. "Stop, you're provoking the behavior!" I actually said that, and the second they stopped pedaling, Tigerlily fell still and silent.
"She bit me!" the young girl said, and I asked, "can I see?"
And sure enough, she had some scratch marks and a little red dot on her leg. Mortified, I apologized.
"It's not bad," the girl said, "but it could have been worse. Don't you think she should be on-leash?" I looked at Tigerlily who was standing there with a confused expression on her face. "Yes," I said. "I guess she should."
So that happened Friday. Saturday and Sunday we brought bicycles into the training yard. First I just reinforced Tigerlily for performing behaviors around the bicycles. I used them sorta like agility obstacles. Then I had Albert get on the bike, and reinforced her for ignoring that. Then Tigerlily practiced stationary behaviors (sits, downs) and also moving behavior (send to table, mat, heel) while Albert kept popping "out of nowhere" on a bicycle. It's the sudden environmental change that often gets us, so I want to start practicing "surprising" Tigerlily with all kinds of things, slowly increasing the intensity of the "surprise," see if I can get her to start recognizing "surprises" as a training game. I want "surprise" to become a cue for "look to Jenny for next cue."
Wednesday, July 9, 2008
Sunday, July 6, 2008
Maia
Unfortunately, as she's grown, her destructiveness, mouthiness and jumping has grown more annoying, and so people get annoyed with her, and that makes her more insecure, which makes her do all her annoying behaviors more often.
My strategy in getting her over the hump involves managing to prevent her from practicing her undesirable behaviors and strongly reinforcing incompatible behaviors. So, for this crazy jumping up, I've practiced by tethering her, and approaching her to pet her as long as four paws are on the ground. As soon as a paw starts to come off the ground, I back quickly outside her reach, yet I pounce in to love her up as soon as her paws are back on the ground. This has worked very well. In addition, when she is off tether and jumps up, I move away, closing a door and leaving her alone on the other side of it, whereas when I pass her and she has four paws on the floor, I make sure to bend over and cuddle her generously. In just this long weekend getting control of these simple consequences has changed this young dog from a frantic panic jumper into a sweet mellow dog who seems all but glued to the floor! It's amazing.
The mouthiness I'm retraining by reinforcing her for touching her nose to the palm of my hand. As long as it is just the nose hitting the palm of my hand, she gets a click and treat. But if I feel a tooth or see her opening her mouth, no click or treat. You can actually see the light dawning in her eyes. She'll mouth and mouth and then look at me quizzically and try the nose. Aha! Nose, nose, nose. Eventually we'll put more of a negative consequence on the mouthiness, but for now, it is making a huge difference in her confidence to put emphasis on rewarding the things I DO want, and ignor the things I don't as much as possible. This helps her relax and that helps her behavior.
I've also kept her on a leash around my waist for several hours each day, I've heard this called "umbilical cord" method, don't know who invented it, and also I tether her in the kitchen while we eat our meals. In this way I help her to learn the right way to behave in the house. When she is on a leash , it is easy to prevent her from counter surfing or destroying shoes or getting into other mischief , and she really does need this "good manners" practice indoors. Although the owner has been hoping that she'll outgrow her problematic puppy behaviors, puppy misbehaviors too often grow bigger while the puppy waits for someone to have time to teach him what he needs to know. Maia is acting like a completely different dog today. No more frantic behavior. She had been getting a mixed message about what was expected of her. Now that we've simplified and clarified what will and won't be reinforced, this information has calmed her down greatly.
Wednesday, July 2, 2008
Boston Terrier
Monday, June 30, 2008
Hiding from Thunder


We get serious booming, shake the house thunder, followed by blinding flashes of light. Some summer nights, the real event is taking place at a distance, and it's peaceful to sit on a boat and watch the lightening twinkle across the sky. But lately we've had a couple of storms where I crawled into the closet, and was quickly joined by the husband and every dog in the house. It was waves of thunder, that approached, blasted overhead, and then went on by. Then comes another.
And Charlie's anxiety with the storms is definitely showing signs of evolving. Now when he hears it arrive, he'll hoot, then come get me, and try to steer me into the closet. I've got it lined with dog beds, so it's kind of a nice place to be. And Tigerlily lays down with her head smothering me. I don't know how the dogs can tell when a big one is about to hit, or if I'm imagining this, but just before a big one arrives, Tigerlily's breathing seemed to get more rapid and she'd lift her head, like she was expecting it, and then kaboom. Or else she had rapid breathing and lifted head quite often, and we were getting kaboomed. But other than that, during the last big one we cuddled and laughed and felt almost bored and then not bored, then bored again. It wasn't scary in the closet. Albert asked me, "Is there a name for that behavior?" Charlie had his nose in the corner under the coats, tucked into a furry round disk, but he didn't cry or whimper. "Hiding?" I guessed. Hiding is a great example of what I'd think of as an "instinctual" behavior, but then again, what behavior ISN'T instinctual, at some level?

Lola-- Good news!
And all the little details seem made to match. The woman understands the importance of keeping Lola muzzled in public, and she doesn't have any other pets or children. Lola met and seemed to really like (licked her like crazy) this woman. So, assuming it goes as planned, Lola will be able to hang out unmuzzled around her new home (unlike when she visits here), and only wear the muzzle when she goes on outings. I'm so glad! Lola is wolfie, wildish, moody, brilliant, beautiful, and just so eager to devote herself to her person. She's not designed to be a social butterfly wisking around doggie daycares. When she doesn't have other dogs or cats to contend with, she is easy and fun to be with, fun to train. It seems that now she will have a chance to really settle into her own quiet Queendom. I hope the new owner will keep me informed about how Lola is doing!
Monday, June 23, 2008
Writing Fast
Anyway, 3 year old Lola is trained. She's beautiful and smart, and really lithe and athletic looking. Although she can be quite a couch potato, she also likes to bounce around the fenced-in yard. Lola wants to be Queen of the household, so she would do best as the "only" pet. Sleeping in your hall, you've got your own personal life guard on duty, but she is discriminating. She doesn't hassle the neighbors or the meter-reader . She does not display territorial aggression, she's great with regular size people, but she would likely kill a cat if given the opportunity, she has aggressed on other dogs, and I'd never trust her with a little kid. So when mingling, she wears her muzzle, which she loves and she's chill and relaxed and a fine one for just hanging out quietly anywhere. Lola retrieves and delivers, sends to hand and mat targets, sits and downs with distance and duration, she walks fabulously on a loose leash. Though it's important to keep her muzzled for safety, she responds well to her name and is readily redirected.
I think Lola would be a real prize for a retired type, or a work-at-home owner. Lola has learned several service behaviors. Although she is not suitable for public access, at home she would be very happy to offer service behaviors for a "training abled" handler. Lola has a working dog temperment, and I believe that in the right household, with consistent muzzle management in public, she would be worth much more than her weight in gold.